Your job title is not your identity. Your value is. If your title disappeared today, Would people still know why they need you?

There’s a weird middle space I’ve been noticing— where you’re doing well financially, career is solid… but your time, energy, and options don’t feel fully yours yet. It’s not a money problem exactly. It’s how everything fits together. Curious if anyone else feels this?

I’m a software developer looking to transition beyond coding. I am a BSCS graduate with experience in building and maintaining mobile and web applications. I’m used to solving problems, analyzing requirements, and working in deadline-driven environments. I’m now exploring Virtual Assistant opportunities where I can support businesses with both technical and administrative tasks. I adapt quickly, communicate well, and aim to deliver consistent, reliable work.

I really don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t have the sources to start my business and I am trying to desperately get work to have money to finance my company but renting is so darned expensive and prices are constantly rising. So renting a place is out. The job market sucks worse. I feel so deeply stuck. Suggestions?

Is anyone working on the very first phases of starting their own business who would like to connect each week to discuss weekly progress, wins, losses and provide each other with support as we try to accomplish this dream?